Tuesday 1 September 2009

Which Category are You In?

I always believe that Actions speak louder than Words...And in many cases, Inaction also speaks very loudly.

Some people in this world are very complex indeed - All that they feel and think is kept inside quietly and their expressions or words carefully thought out for cunning display, although not truly reflecting how they feel inside. And some people are the total opposite, they say what they feel and think - some very brashly with zero thinking, some very diplomatically with some thoughtfulness.

Which category are you in?

I would like to think that I am in Category 3 - direct, honest, but diplomatic with some thoughtfulness. The things that I say and do, shows exactly its purpose and forthrightfulness, but sometimes structured in a way not to hurt other people's feelings. But I am human too, sometimes I can be very brash with zero thinking, to which I usually immediately apolagize to. And if I don't apologize , it means that I had a message to send, and YES, I DID intend to hurt your feelings. Sometimes, it could probably mean that you need a WAKE UP CALL.

And it doesn't matter if what I did was twisted into something bad. I never cared for what other people think as long as my message went through. They can shoot and hang me for all I care. But I mean what I say and I say what I mean.

Some people are not worth the effort. "Do not make someone a priority when they make you an option in life." - something that a friend taught me. It makes perfect sense.

My life goes on - and goes on very well, with a clear conscience, which is more than what I can say for some people.